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My Valentines Day Wish for you..

Karissa Kocjancic
3 min readFeb 14, 2021

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Today regardless of where you are in your own personal journey of loving yourself and others , my wish for you is that you; Choose to be light. Choose to be love. Choose to see the best in others. Choose to chisel away at the bedrocks of their walls, and find the soft interior that lies within. Choose curiosity over judgement. Choose to believe. In yourself. In others. It is so easy to hate. To judge. To criticize. To condemn. Choose to do hard things. To look within yourself and ask yourself what your resentment, anger, and judgement toward another brings up in you? What are your unhealed wounds that you need to explore? For we are all mirrors. What you see in me, thats your work. What I see in you. Thats mine.

If you choose a life of light and love, you may be taken advantage of for your vulnerability, for your courage. You may be shunned for your depth which scares those that are not ready to be intimate enough with themselves and courageously vulnerable enough with another to do the work that is required for authentic connection. This is not yours to own. This is theirs. Choose to love hard anyway. For each time you choose love. Truth. To dive into the tough conversations, you vibrate on a wavelength that is so deep and so high that eventually your person, the one who has done the work, who wants to continue to do the work (because newsflash it never ends) they will show up for you…

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Karissa Kocjancic
Karissa Kocjancic

Written by Karissa Kocjancic

Trauma Informed ICF Life Coach ERYT-500 YACEP ANFT Forest Therapist Shaman Professor and Compassionate Inquirer Practicioner in training

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